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A Tip to Cure Insomnia, Getting Sleep on a Sleepless Night

Many people today use chemical sleep aids because they can’t sleep at night.  It might be that they have a bad hip or shoulder or knee, some painful body joint, perhaps osteoarthritis pain.  I feel your pain on physical pain.  I have that too, not to the degree that I can’t sleep at night, but I have one bad hip that hurts.  It doesn’t keep me awake.

I don’t know if you have insomnia.  Many do.  They take a sleeping pill or some supplement to help them sleep.  I know many people who do that.  I read about melatonin and relaxium that are not a sleeping pill.  Doctors will say that once you take sleeping pills, you will keep taking them.  You have to have them then.  Maybe you’re there already.

In general, through my life I’ve never had a problem sleeping.  As some might describe, I have slept like a baby.  For the last couple of years, that changed.  My sleepless nights come because of my mind.  I’m thinking about something and I can’t stop thinking about it and that keeps me awake.  Maybe you relate to that description.  You can’t sleep because your mind won’t shut down and so you lay there and you can’t sleep.

I wear a fitbit that my wife got me.  For you that like wearing no watch or a more significant watch, the classic look, you might cringe at the sight of a man with a fitbit.  I understand.  Nevertheless, I like looking at the stats from my fitbit on my phone:  how many steps, the number of calories burned that day, my resting heart rate, mileage, zone minutes for peak aerobic, and my sleep score.  Fitbit gives me a sleep score.  If you wear one, you know what I’m talking about.  90 plus is excellent, the upper 70s and 80s it says is good, and below that is fair.  To me, a fair night sleep is a bad one.  Even with a moderately good night sleep, you’re not getting much deep sleep, the kind that refreshes you and keeps you with physical energy during the day.

If your mind, your rapid thinking, the brain not shutting down, keeps you awake, that’s why you can’t sleep, I wrote this post for you.  I found something.

As you read this, perhaps you suggest, pray or quote verses.  Praying and quoting verses do not shut down wakeful thoughts for me.  Don’t get me wrong.  Like Peter, James, and John I could fall asleep praying.  When I pray at night, I do fall asleep praying.  When I’m thinking about scripture, I fall asleep thinking about scripture.  Prayer and thinking about scripture though are not what put me to sleep.  They just didn’t keep me awake.  I need something different than those to put me asleep when my brain won’t stop rerunning the wakeful thoughts.

For me, words don’t stop my mind from working on things that keep me awake.  Prayer involves words mainly, so does scripture obviously.  Words can’t stop the thought patterns that won’t let me sleep.  So what do I do?

To get to sleep, I must replace the thoughts that keep me awake with other thoughts.  Scripture talks about replacing thoughts or imaginations.  You know that.  You’ve got Philippians 4:8 and Romans 12:2:  think on these things and be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  The only way for me to replace thoughts is to think about something else that won’t keep me awake.  How do I do that?

Two nights ago I couldn’t sleep the whole night.  I rested.  My sleep score was fair.  It was in the upper sixties on the fitbit.  I have a pretty low resting heart rate for my age.  My body was resting.  I didn’t feel too tired all day, but that kind of sleep does leave me sluggish in certain ways.  Two of those in a row would start to debilitate.  A string of 3 or 4 would cause harm.

I was very tired when I went to bed last night, because of the bad sleep the night before.  I prayed and then I was going to read (right now the biography of Brigham Young by John G. Turner), but I was too tired to read.  That was good news for me.  I couldn’t stay awake reading because I was too tired.  I turned off my bed lamp, rolled onto my good hip and shoulder and began the process to sleep.  My mind began to work and work.  If steam could come out of my ears from my brain, it would have been happening.  What did I do?

Most nights, my wife and I take a walk for about thirty minutes.  It’s about 3500-4000 steps on my fitbit.  We talk.  Sometimes we walk silently.  We hold hands.  It’s good exercise, but it’s mainly social, I would say.  We take the same path so many times that I have that path memorized.

It was midnight last night and I was still awake.  I decided to take the walk with my wife in my mind.  What was powerful was that it was not words.  It was imagination and mental activity.  I blocked wakeful thoughts with pictures.  My mind could easily take the whole walk in my mind and then start it over again.  I did that.  When the negative, sleepless thoughts started trying to enter my brain, I focused on the pictures, the imagination of that walk.  It worked.  The next thing I knew, it was morning.  I had fallen asleep.  The thoughts did not keep me awake.

As is usual, this procedure I used has a name:  thought-blocking.  Yes, someone thought of this already and I didn’t know it.  I haven’t tried what others have said.  I used what I wrote about here, and it worked.

If you can’t sleep for some reason, you know the power of sleeplessness.  When you get up and you didn’t sleep, that changes your day.  If you do that all the time, it changes your life.  I haven’t had much of a problem not sleeping, so this is new to me in many ways.  I think this is going to work, so I shared it with you.

Among Many Great Prayers by David in Psalm 119: Related to Affliction

Many verses of Psalm 119 are prayers from David to God concerning the Word of God.  The psalms were sung, but they are prayers sung, which provide examples or wording for prayers to God.  You can put your finger down in almost any section to find these prayers.

119:10, “O let me not wander from thy commandments.”

119:18, “Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.”

119:26, “Teach me thy statutes.”

119:35, “Make me to go in the path of thy commandments.”

119:36, “Incline my heart unto thy testimonies, and not to covetousness.”

I ask you to consider Psalm 119:49-50 as another example.

49 Remember the word unto thy servant, upon which thou hast caused me to hope. 50 This is my comfort in my affliction: for thy word hath quickened me.

David asks God to remember what He had said in HIs Word to David, his servant, that had caused David to hope.  In other words, “Dear Father, fulfill the promises you made to me, the ones that help me get through difficult situations.”

Having faith in God is having faith in what God said.  David could continue steadfast in living for God based upon what He said.

Those promises gave David comfort in his affliction.  During affliction, what God said comforts us.  They give the affliction meaning or purpose.  They provide a right way to think about the affliction.

God’s Word quickened David in his affliction.  It revitalized him, got him going, kept him on track, or gave him the boost he needed to continue steadfast.  God uses His Word to raise up His saints from a deadness of depression during affliction.

Means to Personal Growth: How I Grow as a Person

We’re all going to die and personal growth will then end.  At what point does personal growth stop?  The older you get, the less years you have left, and maybe it doesn’t matter any more.  I don’t know how much time I have left.  It could be twenty years.  It could be twenty seconds.

If you are not growing then, you’re not maintaining.  You are diminishing.  In order not to diminish, you’ve got to grow, no matter what’s happening in your life.  You’ve still got a purpose for being here on earth.  You shouldn’t give up.
Since God exists and He functions as we read in His Word, we see His working in the life of a true believer in Jesus Christ.  God works toward the growth of a believer.  This is a promise of sanctification seen in Romans 8:28-29, that God conforms the one who love Him into the image of His Son.

Cooperation with God’s Working

God works, but He wants cooperation.  Cooperation must occur, what the Bible calls, working out your salvation (Philippians 2:12).  This isn’t salvation by works.  It is working out a salvation already there.  I call this cooperation, because it is God working in the life of the true believer.  He’s working, so that you’re working.  When this occurs, growth occurs.
Personal growth is cooperation with what God is doing in and through you.  Based on your cooperation, it can be better for you and then others.  If you’ve had some set backs and unfavorable circumstances, this does not signal to you, just give up, don’t keep cooperating.
Growth relates to purpose.  It is not growth if it is not fulfilling God’s purpose.  Someone might call it growth, but it would be something like cancer.  It’s growing, but we don’t call that growth.  If you got better at fleshly living, regular disobedience to God, that is not growth.  It is regression, even if it is fueled by fulfillment of goals.  A person adds skills for better building of the world system.  It will pass away.  It is vanity.  True growth and vanity are mutually exclusive.
For true personal growth, which relates to the purpose of God, what are the means?  Several means fuel my personal growth.  Among these are Bible reading, prayer, fellowship, reading, writing, and practice.

Bible Reading

I’m not going to do much to prove these means of personal growth, especially a few of them.  I keep reading my Bible.  I read through the Old Testament twice in 2021, and the New Testament 1 1/2 times.  I’m finishing up the NT from 2021, right now midway through Romans.  I’m doing something different in 2022.  The goal will be once OT and twice NT.

Prayer

My daughter and son-in-law gave me a prayer journal for Christmas. I’ll use that this year for prayer.  Our church gives out a prayer sheet every week, which I’ll dovetail with the prayer journal.  I’ve done prayer journals twice before.  To me, the journal will strengthen and emphasize biblical prayers, ones in God’s will.

Fellowship

For sure, biblical fellowship means faithful church meeting, not missing church meetings.  The personal growth also means engaging as the year progresses.  It’s a transition year, but while we meet with the church, we grow through preaching, teaching, and sharing.

Practice

Practice is the faithful work for the Lord.  Through the first three, I consider my wife, practicing the Bible with her in my role.  I want to grow in marriage.  Even during this transition, I want to evangelize and make disciples.  I have one evangelistic Bible study.  I have the goal of two other discipleships at least.  In addition, I continue evangelizing.  I strive to edify other believers in the church, encouraging them.  It’s happening.  I am helping a young man learn Greek, who wanted to learn it.
I do some physical labor to take up my share of that.  Maintenance does not just happen.  Most churches, almost everyone needs to take up their part, so that burden does not rest on a few people.  It is ongoing.
In one sense, practice is like exercise that strengthens.  Someone might read the Bible and pray, but that would be vain without practice.  Some compare that to the Dead Sea.  It’s dead because there is no outlet.

Writing

This is an important writing time to me.  Writing crystallizes thinking.  Whatever I am reading, the sharing I experience in the church, by writing it becomes a talking point.  It becomes useful.  I have the words to speak, because writing them forces me to have them.  Whenever we communicate in our practice, writing makes it better.  Writing practices the words that will come from the mouth in practice.
You know I write here twice a week.  I will continue.  Some don’t want me to do that for reasons I’ve expressed here before, but many encourage me to continue.  I don’t want to stop.
I want to finish all writing projects.  What are they?  It is five books at least.  First, I finished in 2021 the Disciplines for Discipleship.  It was actually a thorough edit of what I wrote in 1991.  The answer edition is printed and in California at Bethel Baptist Church.  The disciple edition is being printed right now and will be shipped to California in the next week or two.  The disciple edition is 162 pages.
I finished two other books in 2021.  They are not published, but they are in the hands of a friend, who volunteered to get them into the final step.  If he accomplishes that, it will be a great help.  One is on apostasy, about 100 pages and five chapters written by me only, the second overall and entitled Lying Vanities.  Two is a book on dress or appearance, about 300 pages and six chapters written by me only again, the third overall entitled Fashion Statement.
I have two projects I’m working on.  One, so a fourth in total, is a book on the gospel, about 400-500 pages written by five or six men including me, entitled The One True Gospel.  I am editor of these two books, just like Thou Shalt Keep Them and A Pure Church.  I believe it is close to done.  Almost everything is written.  It’s in the final parts of editing, formatting, indexing, and then printing.  I will let you know when we are at pre-publication, hopefully soon.
Two, so a fifth in total, is a book on sanctification, about 300-400 pages written by five or six men including me, entitled, A Salvation That Keeps On Saving.  I have about half of the chapters that are completed.  I want this done before the mid point of 2022.  That’s a lot of work.  All of these books will be published by Pillar and Ground Publishing, which is Bethel Baptist Church in El Sobrante, CA publishing.

Reading

What I wanted to write about the most is what I’m reading.  I would include with reading today, what I hear and watch in sermons, podcasts, and programs.  Even as I’m writing this, I’m listening to a podcast with a man lecturing, who I know, a Jewish man, who teaches at Loyola in Chicago, published author, that I’ve known for now about six or seven years.  He stayed at our house for a week after I met him on a bus ride, where I preached the gospel to him and others.  I wanted to hear what he would say, which was about interfaith dialogue and conflict.  I almost always listen to these while doing something else.
What am I reading right now?  I am using Basics of Biblical Greek by William Mounce for the Greek with the young man.  I didn’t use this book, but he did, so I got it to use with him before I move to second year.  I read several columns every week, usually on RealClearPolitics.  Almost all of these I quick-read.
I am reading six books right now.  I’m anywhere between 15% to 85% done with each of them.  One, I’m reading Sharing the Good News with Mormons, edited by Eric Johnson and Sean McDowell.  It has twenty-four short chapters to help evangelize LDS.  It is worth having for this purpose.  The three other books I read in 2021 for the same purpose were The Mormon PeopleI Love Mormons, and Leaving Mormonism.  All four of them gave me something different and helpful.  They all had strengths and weaknesses.  Maybe I’ll write about that sometime soon.
Two, I am reading The Church That John the Baptist Prepared by Joel Grassi.  It is an 850 page book (mammoth) on who Jesus called the greatest man who ever lived.  How many books are written on the greatest man who ever lived?  Not enough.  I don’t think anyone will do better than Grassi.  It is a tour de force, tremendous.
Three, I am reading Return of the God Hypothesis by Stephen Meyer.  This book gives the best and most updated scientific evidence for God.  It will give you numbers of talking points for atheists and agnostics, where you start with creation in evangelism like Paul in Acts 17.
Four, I am reading The Norman Conquest: The Battle of Hastings and the Fall of Anglo-Saxon England by Marc Morris.  This is the most crucial event to the formation of the nation of England.  Since the United States started from England, this will help Americans understand themselves and their mother country.  This is bed time reading.
Five, I am reading Masculine Mandate:  God’s Calling to Men by Richard D. Phillips.  He writes in an edifying, substantive way on some of the foundational knowledge for men to fulfill God’s purpose for them.
Six, I am reading Saving Leonardo: A Call to Resist the Secular Assault on Mind, Morals, and Meaning by Nancy Pearcey.  She continues with her excellent worldview material, following Total Truth.
Do I read fiction?  I do, but I’m reading nothing fictional right now.  I read a few in 2021.  I very seldom share what fiction I’m reading.  I don’t think I need to encourage people to read fiction.  Does fiction aid personal growth?  It can and does.  It helps creativity, imagination, and communication.  I also do it for enjoyment.  I don’t mind enjoying myself as an activity, since God created a world to enjoy.
What I’ve written above is the means of personal growth for me.  God works through every one of these in and through me.

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